This past Sunday morning, Debi and I piled the girls in the car and drove to Wellington, 40 miles north, to have brunch with some old friends from New York.
We took the Maserati and raced up I-95. It’s a great car (Ferrari engine) and interior straight out of Architectural Digest.
The stereo was cranking out everyone’s favorite tunes–Miley Cyrus (for Elle), Jonas Brothers (for Ava), & Allman Brothers (for me + Debi). Everyone was taking turns singing solos, and we were having a blast.
Until …
We reached the restaurant, Johnny G’s, and Debi tried to parallel park in a tight spot while I was belting out my own rendition of the Allman’s “Crazy Love.”
Her first attempt was…how should I put it…was off a bit (ok, maybe off a LOT).
So Debi decided she needed to concentrate on the task at hand. I was told in no uncertain terms to “shut-up”, the radio was muted, and there was absolute silence.
She came in for her second attempt…and NAILED IT! In fact, it was a better job than yours truly has ever done.
And, that my friend, is where today’s entrepreneurial lesson is hidden.
You see, there are four stages of learning:
Stage (1) – Unconscious Incompetence – you don’t know what you don’t know
Stage (2) – Conscious Incompetence – you now know what you don’t know
Stage (3) – Conscious Competence – you now know it, but you have to
concentrate to use what you know
Stage (4) – Unconscious Competence – you know it, and you can do it without
thinking about it
Let’s take learning the alphabet as an example….
There was a time you didn’t even know what the alphabet was or that it had twenty six letters (stage 1).
Next, you were told about the alphabet and you realized you didn’t know it (stage 2).
Then you learned the alphabet, but you really had to concentrate to draw each letter and not confuse a “b” with “d” (stage 3).
And now–hopefully–you can write words, sentences, and even pages without thinking about the letters themselves (stage 4).
So, back to Debi for a sec….
Debi is unconsciously competent (stage 4) when it comes to driving. BUT she’s only consciously competent (stage 3) when it comes to parallel parking. And you know what? For driving and parking that’s good enough.
“So, where’s the lesson in that?” you ask.
Easy there, Chachi, I’m getting to it – first, let me ask you a question:
Are you unconsciously competent (stage 4) at your money making activities?
For example – can you write an optimized blog post without having to think about keywords and their placement? Or an email with an effective hook, and a compelling call to action?
If you’re like most entrepreneurs and marketers, odds are you can’t – and it costs you more than you realize. And here’s why…
When you are only consciously competent (stage 3):
(1) You’re more prone to make a mistake
(2) You’re forced doing it slowly – meaning you also make money slowly
(3) You can only do it in certain places (with your reference material) at certain times (when you can concentrate), so you don’t make money as often
as you could
(4) You never achieve mastery so you’ll quickly fall back into conscious incompetence if you take a few days off.
This is important. Come closer. Listen…
The biggest leap in income happens when an entrepreneur becomes unconsciously competent (stage 4) in their money making activities.
Because it’s easier. And they can do it faster and more often, with better success. In essence, they spend their time doing instead of fumbling.
And, guess what? This Thursday I’m going to show you how to take every money making skill you need to master and make you unconsciously competent.
I’m talking about taking your skills to such a high level of mastery – you could do them half-asleep!
Imagine the leap of income you’ll have when skills you need are hardwired into your brain like that. When getting JV partners is a snap, writing copy a breeze, and growing your business becomes the healthiest habit you possess.
I can’t promise to make you a better driver or a parallel parking expert. But I can promise you’ll be doing a lot more “driving” to the bank and “parking” in front of the drive thru window as you make bigger (and more frequent) deposits.
To Higher Profits,
Rich
PS -Whether you run an online business or dream of building one, there is no skill more important than this: The ability to quickly absorb and apply new tactics, then turn into habits.
This is one of the secrets to growing your business, and it’s a common trait of all the gurus I’ve coached. And now I am sharing these very same techniques with you.
Seize the chance to make growing your business a snap.
P.P.S Do you agree with me on the 4 stages? Disagree? Have an example of your own to pass along?
Let us know about it in the comments below. I’d love to hear your thoughts!
Link to this post: If you found this page useful, consider linking to Why Debi Can’t Parallel Park… ...
I love the analogies, though I think learned tasks like parallel parking will inevitably be easier to master than writing winning content as an ‘unconsciously competent’ person.
While tasks such as driving require the ability to drive and concentration, writing an excellent article requires writing ability, knowledge, grammar savvy, and a background in search, if you’re trying to optimize the content. It will take far longer to learn those steps (and less likelihood you’ll be great at all of them) then parking. I agree that you have to keep practicing and refining your skills, though. You may not be an expert in every area, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try.
Great post! I see learning in a whole new way now!
I guess i need to work on getting to the next level!
Cani it is!
Take it easy Rich! have a great night!
Maserati is a good choice by the way :-)
Dbk
Rich- GREAT post – makes me think!
Brian – learned a lot on the call today – can really see how I need to change my ‘elevator pitch’ and really get my value proposition down too. Also saw the difference between a value proposition for the company and a value proposition for each product and why we need both.
I will definitely be adding your question to the pitch too – what do you like best about this or about what I just said?
Thanks again – looking forward to the next call. BTW, hope you are feeling better soon!
Bonnie
Brian,
Thanks for putting this call together. In the past I have used an “elevator pitch” which I thought was compelling. Well, after today’s call I see that my pitch was compelling, but only to me. Since the call earlier, I have revised my pitch and it answers a couple of questions for someone that has no idea who I am or what I do. Those questions are: “here’s what I got or do” and “here is what it will do for you”.
I’m going to use your suggested questions should they fit the situation. “What did you like best about that?” or “Would like to get your opinion about…!”
I also got from this call that when talking with people for the first time I should really think about a value proposition. A personal and a business proposition. What can I offer to this person that will cause him/her to believe that he/she should buy what I’m selling. Like the adage goes: people like to buy for themselves but they don’t want to be sold. Make what you got their decision to purchase from you because they see value in your product or service.
I look forward to other calls and getting more value from everyone on the call. Everyone on the call had some input for everyone’s benefit. Great suggestions from all.
Success to all,
regards,
Hal
Now is the perfect time to build a home based business. You never know when corporate America is going to downsize, export or eliminate your job (just over broke). If the 12 million workers who have recently been laid off had started learning how to build a home based business just two years ago, they could have avoided the crunch they’re feeling now. Network Marketing and Internet marketing can change the whole economic landscape. The secret to success in a home based business is really no secret. First prepare, take action and then learn from your experiences. Change what doesn’t work and you’re on your way to financial freedom, forever. And the really great thing is that it can be done from almost anywhere, with a laptop and cell phone. Tom Mahan dot ws is my personal website and not a business site. It’s who I am.
Hi Rich I love the analogie. I would also like to add like anything you do in life you need to have a plan of attack to achieve your goals. You can start small will daily goals then weekly,monthly,yearly and so on, If you do not have any goals how are you going to know how to get from here to there. You must have a starting point before you can get to the finish line.
just my thoughts,
John
Hello Rich
First things first. Deep Gratitude to Dr Mani – if not for him, it would have taken long for me to get to know you.
Some what in your own words “Let’s face it. The days of actual news reporting have gone the way of the dodo. And every time one of these capped teeth morons start spewing their mindless dribble,
——–.”
I’ve been a flight attendant for 32 years, & for a good 16, I was training them on Service & Safety.
Your analogy in learning – is something that I have never ever heard nor read.
You – Yes – You basically floored all the academics in their
theories in learning.
Hats off to you Sir.
Hello Rich
I was watching a stunning video of you at Tom McArthy’s Life Without Limits programme – and I was devastated at the last minute when Debbie did not come up to the stage.
It was a beautiful to see you up there, with two kids.
I am glad, all the way from SriLanka, I am able to engage with a person of your caliber.
Success Always.